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Confessions of a Celebration Virgin

Dear friends,

The ACOF Board received this letter a couple of days ago and I thought I’d pass it on as I could say it better...

1 December 2015

Confessions of A Celebration Virgin

My life was changed last year. 

The Orlando 2015 Celebration was my first experience with an all exclusive group of mature gay men.

When I first heard the rumors of the organization called A Celebration of Friends, I was inquisitive. The first post I glimpsed was a picture of a group of men at a convention for “mature men and their admirers”. Their faces beamed with excitement as they immersed themselves in a swimming pool, obviously enjoying themselves. It was unadulterated pleasure for me to realize that these were the type of men I had only dreamed of meeting and wanted to be with. These guys seemed unabashed in the excitement of being with each other. Please understand, I work in a profession for a company which does not approve of equal rights and tries to maintain and encourage its own strict code of conduct and moral standards for each of its employees.

I searched on-line until I found the ACOF website, made a phone call and ended up talking to one of the Board members. He was hospitable and enamoring over the phone and talked to me in a brutally honest fashion which made me blush. His words encouraged me to break out of my shell. As soon as the conversation began, it seemed to be over. Within minutes after hanging up the phone, my credit card was in full use. Flights and Hotel rooms were booked and registration paid for. I was ready, willing and excited to be attending my first all male convention. All I had to do was to survive until July! At 73 years old, I felt it was too late in life for me to change and that for all practical purposes I was wasting my time. My life was over before it really began. But as that ACOF board member told me, “Life is once! There’s a battalion of men who would love to get close to you.” Was he really on the level, or simply lying to to get his hands on this foolish old man’s money?

July arrived as it always does, but last year it sure seemed to take an extra long time. To this country boy, the city of Orlando was daunting. This was my first visit to a major metropolis and to Florida. I was overly cautious and eager to begin a new chapter in my life and to experience a part of me I had always denied. Walking off the airplane, I stepped into a weekend of life as I always wanted to live it; completely honest as to who I was and what I wanted. 

It seems the first Celebration experience is different for every person who attends, but all us virgins seemed to share a common thread; we were the preverbal kids in a candy store. Never before was I hit on by so many nice men. It started early, everyone was very friendly at registration and I was sharing a room with a man I'd never met before. Hell, I was sharing an entire hotel with five hundred men I’d never met before, except perchance in my dreams. There were older men like me and some even older than me. There were younger middle aged guys and then some younger young guys present. Some were your typical stereotypes, some hairy, some chubby, others tall and short, but all were wearing the same thing; each had a smile on his face. The Village People had arrived.
I really had no expectations. All I’d ever read about gay men was that they were all activists, busy fighting the system for equality in marriage and justice. I found none of that here. All these guys were doing was enjoying each others company. This was the world I was looking for. I never had a gay friend or a partner, this was my whole purpose of attending the Celebration...or so I told myself.

"How many times can a man turn his head and pretend that he just doesn’t see?" I must report, the experience was very positive. I can only call it a great experience as I look back now at my first Celebration, the activities, the chatter and the laughter. Like so many of my new experiences; the first day was spent clumsily getting my sea legs until I began to relax just meeting the guys. This was a new world for me. A nurturing place of new life, the kind of life I always wanted to experience but had somehow forgotten. A place of men enjoying the presence of other men, a cache of gathered treasures and some of them were smiling back at me.

Sharing early morning breakfasts with different like minded men is the way angels must start each day in heaven. Some of the best times were the "Happy Hours" and sometimes those 'happy hours lasted twenty-four hours a day. There were seminars on many different important subjects that I was too busy to attend, but I did enjoy the ones I went to. One of the greatest achievements of the weekend was meeting the incomparable Edward Asner and also getting a chance to talk with him. I met many great friends I will keep for life.

The most important experience of the weekend was knocking down the walls I was imprisoned in all my life. Now my world view was different. It was a sacred time, the acceptance of becoming who I always was. The friendships I made were more than special. I was not an island but found unity with men from different parts of the world. I am looking forward to the 2016 Celebration.
That weekend last July, was one of the greatest in my life. It required trust on my part and a willingness to be open to new adventures. Luckily for me, this old man got out of his comfort zone and like a young bird took that scary first step out of the nest. While I was not the only virgin there, many non-virgins accepted me and helped me break out of my shell. For me, the 2016 Celebration need not change at all. I trust the ACOF Board to continue doing what they’ve been doing the past 14 years. There will be many new aspects and adventures for all to enjoy. I’ll be back with the renewed energy of a reborn 74 year old man. But here’s a word for those new Celebrations Virgins coming aboard "be prepared to have your life change forever”.


-- NO Longer - A Celebration Virgin

(Name withheld upon request.)

So what do you all think? Share your experience on our ONLINE PRIVATE FORUM and let everyone know how much fun you had.




Our yearly conventions are "Celebrations" of the mature gay man. We are a registered 501(c)4 non-profit organization.

ACOF MISSION STATEMENT: To provide warm, comfortable, safe and engaging gatherings recognizing and promoting self-worth, dignity, kindness and friendships within our senior population. To that end, we strive not only to host celebrations of our seniors, but family type reunions of our friends and brothers through supportive connections within our nationwide and international scope.


Our next A Celebration of Friends weekend will be held this July 14 - 17 of 2016 at the DoubleTree by Hilton Orlando at SeaWorld located at 10100 International Drive, Orlando, Florida 32821, USA. To reserve your hotel room at the 2016 Celebration please call +1-407-352-1100 or click here.

Celebration Tickets: To book your entrance for the 2016 Celebration, click here.

Hotel Rooms: To reserve your hotel room at the 2016 Celebration, click here or call +1-407-352-1100.

2016 A Celebration of Friends

Our next A Celebration of Friends weekend will be held this July 14 - 17 of 2016. To book your entrance for the 2016 Celebration, click here

DoubleTree by Hilton at SeaWorld

DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel Orlando at SeaWorld 10100 International Dr.,
Orlando, FL 32821
Tel: +1-407-352-1100



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Sixty-seven percent of gay seniors in the U.S. live alone, twice the proportion of their straight peers, and ninety percent have no children. (Source - SAGE)

51 percent of LGBT have yet to complete wills or living wills spelling out their long term care and end-of-life wishes. (Source: MetLife Mature Market Institute)

ACOF yearly has a workshop at the Celebration in June getting your affairs in order on. Please, please, please, protect your loved ones and make sure your affairs are in order. (It's not always the older in a relationship that passes on.)

It's already into the fourth month of 2013 and I am sure that many of you have made a few resolutions  . . . and perhaps already broken some of them. This year is going fast so the A Celebration of Friends staff wishes you an enjoyable remainder of 2013. We ask each of you to remember our motto We're all in this together . . .and together we can make a difference!"
Please help me with my new year resolutions for 2013: as I want to:

1.  Learn the first names and spend time getting to know all who attend the Celebration and Cruise.

2. Strive to have the best possible Celebration ever!!! (Been doing my best for twelve years but still need your help!)

    a.  Activities are now being planned for this years Celebration. Please let me know what activities you would like to see/participate in/watch this year! 
3.  Stop trying to find the perfect partner. Instead, try to become the perfect partner. 

4. Continue to say "I love you"  . . . and mean it!

5. Drink more water. 

6. Find the best people for the Board of the ACOF and AHOF and utilize them to their fullest potential.

7.  Be a kinder person. 

8Keep believing in my ideals and myself while continuing to try to make the world a better place!

It has taken over three years, but during the first week of December 2012, the A Habitat of Friends had its first board meeting (away from the ACOF). We have sent the necessary paperwork to the state to form a charitable 501(c) organization. A Board was voted in and by-laws were adopted. Our next meeting was set up for January and we were planning on having a commercial realtor talk to the Board so we could begin to form our concept of what exactly we were attempting to do in regards to forming a low-cost Gay Retirement Community. Then, newly elected vice president (John Szabocsik) passed from cancer on Christmas eve.  

We need every one's help on this much need campaign.

Registration for the ACOF weekend and reservations for the hotel can be made conveniently on our website. http://www.celebrationoffriends.orgBy pre-registering for the convention, you will avoid long lines when you arrive at the hotel. Tell your friends about the Celebration and PLEASE provide them our website address. Send it to the various sites where you are listed. Word of mouth is a great way to inform the gay community of our wonderful Celebration Meeting... it is the largest of its kind for senior gay men and their admirers in the WORLD!!.  
A Celebration of Friends weekend is still the greatest bargain event and one of the least expensive conventions for gay mature men and their admirers IN THE WORLD!!!  Rooms are $101 nightly for two people or $111 for three \-four people.  (It could cost less than $30.00 per person per night in a three or four person room and imagine how COZY that could be!!!)  The registration fee of $85 price includes a full American breakfast daily, a $5 nightly parking fee, free bus shuttles nightly, a hour happy hour every day, entertainment every night and twenty-four hours of freedom and frolicking with nearly eight hundred hundred good old friends from the USA and around the world. Come join us again this year, it can change your life FOREVER!